Having an open conversation with your child about sex may seem awkward, but it’s more than a necessity. Parents often feel embarrassed and embarrassed when talking to their children about it, especially if it’s the first time. However, it is very crucial for you as a parent to educate your child about sex to ensure their well-being. Having the right and healthy conversation about sexual needs is important, especially in this digital age where teens often engage in sexting.
In fact, a 2017 National Library of Medicine study found that about 40.5% of male teens and 30.6% of females have engaged in sexual conversation. And the numbers keep rising. Dr. Pediatrics and Adolescents Specialist Hina Talib spoke on this topic and shared an Instagram post about the ways to help you have a successful conversation about sexting with your child.
- Start the conversation early: Start talking about what a healthy relationship looks like. It’s important to talk to them about consent and how to be a good digital citizen without bringing up the subject of sexting
- Brainstorm with your child:You can talk about all the possibilities you may encounter regarding sex and brainstorm ways to say no. And to make your child feel more comfortable, it’s essential to divert the request with humor.
- Take it easy:If your child is into sexting and has shared or received nude photos, don’t panic. Calm down and regain your composure before speaking to them. If you overreact, your child will be embarrassed, which can seriously harm him in the future.
- Do scenario planning: Try to make things as normal as possible, such as playing a game of what-ifs with your child, asking what they would do if they got a sext, or if someone pressured them for nudes.
- Make it about someone else: If you hear about a minor being accused of possessing child pornography, use that as an example and discuss the matter with your child.
- Remove: If your child has nude photos of themselves or a minor on their phone, explain why the photo needs to be removed, but be careful with your words and tone.
- Designate a proxy: If you have a difficult or complicated relationship with your teen, it’s best to get another adult involved and convey all your concerns to them. And then let them talk to your child when they feel comfortable.
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