It is important that a child feels safe and secure.
A child will learn to love and respect others, especially their mother or father, based on how the father treats everyone.
Parenting is undeniably one of the toughest jobs, hence the saying, “It takes a village to raise a child.” Fathers not only play an important role in shaping their children’s personalities, but also influence their attitudes, identity, self-confidence and much more. Both mother and father have certain responsibilities to their children, including providing a safe environment in which they can express themselves without fear of judgment. Here’s how a father can influence a child’s mental development.
Safety
Children need to feel safe and it is a father’s job to ensure that the little ones are protected. This safety net helps them concentrate better on their work and activities. They know that if things go wrong, their father will be there to protect them.
Unconditional love
Every child needs unconditional love. It means that no matter what happens, their father will always have their back. Guiding or imparting knowledge is not a father’s only responsibility. They are also responsible for instilling morals and values in their children.
Love and respect towards partner
A child will learn to love and respect others, especially their mother or father, based on how the father treats everyone. When the father or mother has mutual love and respect, the child will grow up with the same value system and also show respect to the parents and other elders.
Quality time
It is important to have quality time, both as a family and individually. A child may share a different equation with his mother than with his father. That’s why spending more time together is also important for a child’s growth. It makes them feel seen and heard.
Discipline
Children need to learn discipline. After all, it is a father’s responsibility to set boundaries for children and teach them what is right and wrong.
Let children take their responsibilities
As a father, give the children the opportunity to take on responsibilities little by little. This makes them independent and feels confident at the same time.
