Samira Rustami, 20
I was born in Kabul, directly disadvantaged because of my gender and caste. I was repeatedly reminded not to pick up a book or a pen. I just had to learn to cook and clean to serve the family. When I managed to find time to study, my mother would tear my books and even try to burn them to stop me. However, my brother was showered with encouragement, so of course I often found myself wanting nothing more than to be a boy.
When I read Malala Yousafzai’s book, I was overwhelmed with inspiration. Moved by Malala, I studied hard and tried to find a path that no one supported or even thought possible.
One day, while scrolling through Facebook, I learned that there are applications for the Indian Council of Cultural Relations’ annual scholarship program, which invites Afghan students to study in India on a full scholarship. I secretly applied and did a qualification test. When I was admitted, my parents refused to send me. After begging everyone in my family, one of my uncles agreed to vouch for me. And while studying in India, I really understood the value of education – that a woman can only be free and strong if she stands on her own two feet, armed with knowledge.
After completing my bachelor’s degree in Business Administration, I returned to Afghanistan hoping to find a job in the financial sector. But my caste and gender continued to thwart my job opportunities.
When the Taliban captured Kabul last August, I realized I had to take a terrifying risk and leave my whole life and family behind. I fled with only what I could fit in my backpack.
In the United States I am optimistic. With the opportunity to go to college, I want to start over with a dream of becoming a nurse. I hope this opportunity will inspire other young Afghan girls, like myself, that they too can achieve their dreams by not giving up, by believing in themselves and by being focused and strong.
